When my kids were little they belonged to a summer reading club at the local library. One of the books gifted them through the program sponsored by TD Bank was a book called When Jeremiah Found Mrs. Ming. In the story, Jeremiah repeatedly tells Mrs. Ming he has nothing to do, and Mrs. Ming always responds with, “I can think of a hundred things to do.”
And so they go about doing household chores and having fun while doing them. Jumping on the bed when sheets have been tucked in and riding on the broom when the sweeping is done. When the task and fun is complete, Jeremiah will once again state that he has nothing to do, and Mrs. Ming ups the ante by saying, “I can think of a thousand things to do.”
Of course, this became my usual response if and when my kids said they had nothing to do. I’d eagerly exclaim that I could think of a thousand things to do. And on we’d go creating our own list of things, doing them, and mimicking the fun and laughter found in the book.
Now, I wonder, if I gave my kids enough time to be bored. Between the body painting, diving into the above ground Walmart pool, and traipsing all over the place for fun, play and picnics, did I give them enough time to be bored?
Bored isn’t a bad thing. It’s a time to slow down, give ourselves the opportunity to think and thus explore our creative selves. When we are bored we come up with new ideas, solve problems, and find time to just be, gaining comfort in who we are, and expressing our true selves, while we get in touch with our own hearts and find joy in the moment.
Here’s a little video I made some time ago about the benefits of boredom.
What do you think? Is boredom a good thing? What do you do if you find yourself feeling bored, or if your kids say they’re bored?
In the meantime, while you think about that, I wish you a super boring day!
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I do remember this video from the first time you posted it ❤️. So true, slowing down affords us a little peace of mind and allows us to appreciate the little things we might have overlooked otherwise. Being bored is a different animal though, and kids + boredom = torture so I don’t blame you for trying to keep them busy back then 😊.
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Thanks Jan. and thanks for watching again. You’re absolutely right, adult boredom is a little different that kiddie boredom. And something we all have fun managing. Thanks for being here! 💕
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And then there’s the “other” side of boredom… There’s an ancient (Chinese? Egyptian? Something completely different? I’m not sure…) that goes something like: may you live in interesting times 😀
Maybe a measure of boredom is good for one’s health? 🙂
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Interesting times for sure. And yes, a little bit of boredom is good for your health and your soul. Thanks for being here and taking the time to leave your lovely comment.
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For sure!
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Boredom for me is doing the same things over and over, Alegria. I’m not good at that, but some things are necessary. I don’t like to ‘waste’ time, but am happy to sit and watch boats bob across the water. My husband just falls asleep when he’s bored. That refrain ‘I’m bored’ is common enough in the young, but seldom when they have phone in hand, I’ve noticed. The ultimate stifler of creativity.
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That’s the truth Jo.
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Hi Alegria, when I was a child, I never found winter boring. Lots to do! Skating, tobogganing, building snow forts, and on it goes. (You know.) But summers were different, not a lot to do out there in the heat, so Mom made all of us go to our rooms for some “quiet time” in the afternoons. Boring? At first, yes, but out of it I became a voracious reader and lover of great stories. I have to thank my mother for that, because I’m not sure the path I am on now (writer) would have opened up otherwise. So yes, embracing “boring” can lead to paths we might not have anticipated. As always, I love your video. Don’t know the place, but would love to be there. Thanks for sharing it! 🙂
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Looks like your mom had the right idea in mind Susan. That quiet contemplative time is so necessary for all of us. How wonderful that it took you down your chosen path. And the place is Cancun. Beautiful and very popular with Canadians especially, I think. Thanks for reading and watching! 💕
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Hi Alegria, when I was a child, I never found winter boring. Lots to do! Skating, tobogganing, building snow forts, and on it goes. (You know.) But summers were different, not a lot to do out there in the heat, so Mom made all of us go to our rooms for some “quiet time” in the afternoons. Boring? At first, yes, but out of it I became a voracious reader and lover of great stories. I have to thank my mother for that, because I’m not sure the path I am on now (writer) would have opened up otherwise. So yes, embracing “boring” can lead to paths we might not have anticipated. As always, I love your video. Don’t know the place, but would love to be there. Thanks for sharing it! 🙂
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I love your description of the days when you kids were young. Yes, I can think of a thousand things to do. I love your point that boredom is necessary for creativity. So good — to create space in our lives and feel our feelings. Beautiful video and post, dear friend!
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Thanks so much Wynne. Creating that space is so important for us to flow freely into becoming. Those quiet respites are much needed for that.
Thank you Wynne for reading and watching and taking the time to leave your lovely comment my friend. 💕
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Oh…how lovely. Watching, listening. I don’t have a guess for where you were, but it looks fabulous. I saw your post roll in just as I was finishing up a draft of a piece for next week about the perils of being overly productive and how helpful a particular friend is at bringing me back to ‘center’. Your video did that, too! And I love the word ‘interlude’…it made me think about my favorite French word, ennui. The idea that boredom and being tired are sometimes entangled. If I’m tired, I might think I’m bored. If I’m not, I might see unscheduled time as a gift, an opportunity. Gosh how my perspective can get in my own way. Thank you, Alegria. What a great way to close out my day at my desk. xo! 🥰
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So glad you identified Vicki. Ennui, yes, a word I haven’t heard or used in a long time, but somewhere between that and exhaustion lays our ability to create. I think we are a culture that loves to schedule so many aspects of our lives. And planning is good, and so is colouring outside the lines. Brings us back to your post that I read today. Finding that balance between planning and freewheeling right?
You have a lovely, peaceful evening. Thank you for being here my friend. 💕
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Hi Alegria, This is a beautiful, poignant post with many gems, reflective of the writer. 💕The book, your inside family humour, and how we are always second guessing our choices as a Mother. Your choice of the word and theme, boring and boredom is coincidental. Yesterday, was the first day of Summer vacation for my two granddaughters. At different times of the day I received messages (via video chat and text – our nowadays phone – how they were “bored” and wanted to talk). I smiled, aware how I was benefiting from their boredom.
My family and friends have heard over the years, how I wish I had a boring day. In my case, I appreciate “space” in my day. Your video is unique, beautiful. 💕 Erica
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Ah what a beautiful message Erica. Thank you ever so much! And yes, such a coincidence about boredom. I’m sure your granddaughters love chatting with their grandma, how beautiful that you are the one they reach out to.
And I know exactly what you mean by “space in my day,” I’m the very same. xoxo💕
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